tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14914810.post112778192197362061..comments2023-03-25T21:22:26.578-04:00Comments on Breathing In and Breathing Out: The Relief of BottomingJigsaw Analogyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15051811184421446296noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14914810.post-1128189088642428642005-10-01T13:51:00.000-04:002005-10-01T13:51:00.000-04:00OK I've been lurking on here for a few weeks but t...OK I've been lurking on here for a few weeks but that post totally hit home for me. My beloved has the same attitude to spanking as yours does - he does it cos I want him to but it took him a long time to get what I wanted from it - of course it took me a long time to get what I wanted as well and I'm still not always sure whats going on inside my head. But those times when you know your darling is trying hard to make you happy but not quite hitting the right spot - bad pun, sorry, inintended - just leaving me disgruntled and frustrated and tetchy........ and it would feel awful to turn round and say 'Darling, I love you, I realise you're trying really hard to make this what I want it to be, but could you try again and do it this way please?'<BR/><BR/>I guess we're both lucky our darlings want to try and help us. ANd no-one's perfect. And y'know sometimes my head really really isn't clear on what my bum wants either!!<BR/><BR/>Love this blog. and the fantasies up above this one. WOW. Nice!!galroshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06320177964048169054noreply@blogger.com